There should be an application process that you fill out with nature, that would decide as to whether or not you are allowed to reproduce.
Lately, it seems that more and more people are having kids simply to have them as accessories. Some of the things that should be asked before inserting the peg into the hole and releasing the confetti would be things such as:
– Is this someone you are in love with?
– Is this someone you’re married to or are going to be married to?
– Is this relationship a happy and stable one?
– Is this someone I have respect for?
– Is there a steady flow of income?
– Are we mature enough to bring a life into this world?
– Has this person ever abused me or vice versa?
– Would I want this person as a parent to me if I was their child?
– Am I ready, willing and able to give up my current lifestyle in order to create the lifestyle that would be most beneficial to my baby?
– Will I love my baby?
I don’t understand why people, especially people around my age, are so selfish. If you are not ready to bring a life into this world, and would be living your life for yourself and not your baby’s then maybe you shouldn’t bring it into the world at all. I’m not saying you have to go and abort every fetus that habitates your body, but adoption is always there. It makes me sad that there are thousands upon thousands of people out there that are unable to have a child and would love the opportunity to have one, and are therefore on standby lists on adoption agencies lists, whereas there are people that are not ready, that are not willing, that are not mature enough to live their lives for someone else instead of for themselves.
It pisses me off when I see people that have kids solely as a means to:
– Stay or Trap the other person into a relationship and / or marriage
– Financial leniencies with the government
– Evoke revenge on an ex, most often the father / mother of the child
Let us clarify some things. When you have a child, the child needs to be with you. It is so critical within the first year that the baby establishes trust with its mother and father, that it is touched, and hugged, and cuddled, and loved in the most awesome of ways so that it can grow at a steady rate into a healthy baby, then kid, then adult.
You do NOT pass your fucking kid off to anyone who will take it off your hands whenever you feel like you need to clean your room, or your house, or hang with your girls, or go out clubbing, or go and diddle a guy.
If you say things such as “he’s so annoying” or “he wakes up and cries all the time” maybe you should take a look at your fucked up “parenting” style and realize that maybe since you’re not around and don’t give a shit about your child or who they’re with, you don’t know what it’s being taught. You don’t know what they’re feeling, babies can tell how you feel. If you’re stressed, they feel it, if you’re sad, they feel it. And if you treat them like turds on a plate, they feel and know it.
Babies crying need attention, so if you want to continue to be an irresponsible sack of shit then maybe you should have never had the baby with someone who was so worthless to begin with and maybe that worthless person could be you.
That’s all I have to say right now. Sadly enough, by the time you have finished reading this entry, I’m sure that there’s about thirty children at least that have been born to selfish, unloving, immature households by now.
I feel bad for the poor babies.
<3 siempre,
AristoKat
